With all of the hype of “loan modifications” and “government bailouts” you can’t help but feel that there is a solution somewhere that will save you from loosing your home. I’ve been watching the news, reading everything that comes across my emails and can only say that I get a little sick to my stomach at times.
One must really think about long term when faced with an opportunity to modify an existing loan. It’s such an emotional time, the fact that your going to lose your home is beyond anything I could put into words, believe me I know first hand! The stress seems to go away when you are told that if you just “sign here” you don’t have to move and you get to keep “YOUR HOME!” Wow, those are words that you’ve prayed for.
Here’s the hard reality;what do you do in a few years when you find that your so upside down in the home that you can’t refinance to a lower payment, or worse yet need to move and have no chance of selling unless you do a short sale….and who knows if the lender will be willing then?
As I work with our clients and their lenders on loan modifications, one thing has been consistent. Lenders are not in the mindset to help their current clients. They go off of black and white paperwork, if the borrower fits their criteria they offer up some type of a loan modification. I’ve never seen one, no never, that was an advantage to the borrower. They are a bandage at best!
Lenders are not willing to take into consideration the fact the home is 30 to 50% + upside down. They will usually extend the borrower a lower payment and add all of the “accrued” interest to the end of the loan. We have seen a few lenders discuss the possibility of reducing principal balance 5%, but have not had ONE accepted as of today.
The point here is there is no magic wand, no real fix for the mess of our housing industry. Loan modifications may work for some people, if they are not seriously upside down in their home.
Having lived through the loss of a home, and of course trying anything possible to keep what was “mine”. I look back and realize the blessing of not being given the chance to keep it. Now that the emotions have died down the fact is that if we would have kept that house at it’s upside down equity, I’m not sure if we would have seen it appreciate enough in our life time to have equity….it was nearly $200,000 upside down a year ago…and still dropping.
Those four walls that seemed to mean so much to us now sit empty like hundreds of other homes in the city. I’ve realized that it’s human nature to fight for things that are ours, no one wants to be told they don’t have a choice. Here’s the thing, you do have a choice, you can choose to get out of a bad situation that will most likely get worse before it gets better.
The market is still declining, most loan modifications are going to keep you locked into a home that is going to continue to drop in value. Think about your future.…you can most likely find a wonderful home to live in while real estate continues to drop. Then buy again for half of what you owe on the four walls that you leave behind.
Short Sales were not widely accepted a year ago. In today’s market, your lender is ready to get these bad loans out of their inventory. The President has also realized that people are in need of help and signed into action the mortgage relief act, this relieves home owners of the liability of gains. When your thinking about your “choices” try to step away from the emotions. If it makes financial sense to keep the home, just be very careful to check with your lender before you pay someone to do a loan modification for you. You will be able to talk to your lender/s and find out exactly what terms they will offer.
From the heart of someone who’s been through it…
